The 13 Secrets to Creating Extraordinary Success and
A Life Worth Living
I am here to talk about the most important thing in the world tonight / YOUR LIFE!
The 13 Secrets are going to change your life forever, period. I know it will change your life because it has changed mine and countless others! I can honestly say that this technology is the single most important component to me achieving success!
Success begins with you, so therefore we are going to go to work on YOU. We are going to give your life clarity and congruency.
Success is a state of consciousness not a procedure.
It’s not the procedure it’s the person doing the procedure!
* How would you define success?
Take 2 minutes and write down what you see as success. If you knew you couldn’t fail, what accomplishments will you have achieved at the end of your career? What are you lifetime goals?
Write them down now!
Put these to the side we will come back to these latter.
Now, let’s clarify what’s truly important to you and define who you are.
The 10 questions:
Based on these answers write you purpose, your reason for being. This is based on your on your values, what drives you, what your passionate about.
Don’t just write any purpose; write you’re your purpose, your noble purpose, your reason for living! A purpose bigger than self! Renew your purpose and renew your life!
You will never attain lasting rewarding success without a noble
purpose.
My purpose is to inspire those around me to a higher level of being, with fun abundance and integrity.
Identify what your noble purpose is first, then identify your practice purpose, it should be a cousin of your noble purpose.
Your purpose defines you.
Your vision is what this purpose looks like to me.
A subluxation free community.
Your mission is/are the actions that you take to realize that vision to serve your purpose.
Writing your noble purpose is Secret #1.
Do it immediately for everything you learn after this will be useless. Write your noble purpose based on principle and integrated by a purposeful philosophy.
Everything in you life must congruently radiate from your purpose, your noble purpose and driven by your values.
Secret #2: is developing congruency between your life and your purpose.
Identify the key areas or roles in your life:
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The key areas and roles in your life must be lived through your philosophy and noble purpose.
I am here to tell you that you can have it all, the life of your dreams but it begins with living it with balance between your roles and key areas in your life.
Rate your current level of excellence in each of the key areas or roles that you have identified on a scale of 1-10 with 10 being highest:
Living in balance is not living at it at levels of 2’s!
Rate the amount of energy that you currently invest in each area on a scale of 1-10:
Now let’s go back and re-ask the first question. How would you define success? Most people answered this question way, way out of balance.
Secrets # 3: Creating purpose and value led goals.
Goals are about bringing your future into the present so that you can do something about it. This is about creating a destiny.
Goals are your map. Without a life map you will end up no where in life!
In 1953 Yale graduates were surveyed they identified that 3% of the graduates had specific and clearly defined goals and with a written action plan.
In 1973 they went back and compared the groups. The 3% with goals had amassed more wealth then the other 97% combined but more interestingly they were happier, more well adjusted and experienced more joy in their life.
Create goals that are big enough and powerful enough to get excited about!
Now write out your Lifetime Goals and objectives, 2 minutes. Go!
Write out your 5-year goals: 2 minutes go!
Write out your 1-year goals, 2minutes go!
These goals are Purpose and Value led!!! These goals will be supercharged!
Secret # 4. The mental retreat:
Find a location that is away from your current environment, free of distractions, free of phones and cell phones, free children anything.
Take a trip, local park, and meditation area…
3. Begin brainstorming your dream life: The brainstorming process, write down anything and everything that comes to mind. Secret 4 the mental retreat is about dreaming big, dreaming a big life and life worth living at 100%. Dream big, dream powerful dream passionate. Dream like you can’t possibly fail…
The true joy in life comes from living life at 100%
Write out your dream life in the greatest of details and clarity. Quantify each area in the greatest of detail. These are your quantified lifetime goals. Your 5-year, 1 year monthly goals are your milestones to let you know if you are on the write path.
Secret 5: Identifying your underlying belief systems and feeling about your goals and dream life.
This secret or step is more important than you may at first realize. Here is where the contradictions lie!
When you think of the vision of your goal what do you feel? Do you feel anxiety? Fear? Sick? If there weren’t a contradiction you would have already realized the goal.
Take you time and dig. Open room adjusting: fear, loss of confidentiality, people may quit, I will have to face upset patients…
Where did these beliefs come from? Look to practices people and situations that contradict your beliefs.
Secret 6: Expectations and deadlines (lifelines):
What do really expect? Do you have a level of certainty regarding your expectations of achieving your goals and dreams?
If you have any doubt that you will not achieve your goals, you won’t!
Are your goals realistic?
We are going to give the steps that will give you absolute certainty that you will achieve each and every one of your goals and it will be easier than you ever though possible.
Give you goals lifelines not deadlines. Chunk it down. Break your goals down to yearly, monthly, weekly, daily.
Give them a deadline or lifeline creates one of the most important factors to achieving success, urgency! Creating urgency is the motivator to create action. Action is what is necessary to reality. The ability to turn intention into reality is what success is.
Beliefs – Actions – Reality, your reality.
You must have a lifeline that corresponds with each goal or it will never materialize. Post all chunked down goals and deadlines.
Secret #7: List all the benefits to attaining your goals.
This seems like a step that you can skip but it is what gives you additional urgency and power behind your dreams and goals. If you can attach emotions and feeling to your goals and objectives it will provide the necessary motivation and passion behind your actions.
Emotions get people to act!!! This adds the emotional component! With out this you are much less likely to take action and have the persistence necessary to continue to act in the face of adversity and tough times.
Attach a highly charged positive emotion with each goal and attach a highly charged negative emotion with each current state.
Write down every possible positive effect that goes with attaining each goal.
Write down what you will lose if you don’t achieve every goal.
Connect emotions with both positive and negative and then anchor those feelings in.
Secret # 8: Finding with a mentor, mastermind group and coach:
Who is your mentor? Identify and find someone that you can mentor who has already achieved your dream life (you will have a different mentor for each role of key area in your life). Develop a relationship, communicate, observe, ask questions, and identify their belief systems.
Who do you have to be to attain your dreams? Find that person then mirror them.
Develop a mastermind group in each area of your life. Find a group of peers to support each other. Pick each other up when your down, improve each other’s skills, brainstorm ideas, develop a group consciousness, challenge each other and encourage each other.
Meet at least weekly! Do it religiously!
Hire a coach. If you don’t have a success coach, a practice coach you are just kidding yourself. Find someone to hold you accountable to your dreams, goals and deadlines, someone to show you what you can’t see, someone to get you to do things you don’t want to do so that you can be what you want to be. Everyone needs a coach, period.
Secret # 9: The strategic plan and the actions steps.
My favorite question: What has to happen for that to happen.
Magnify your problem or goal by ten fold and you will think of strategies you would have never dreamed of before.
Create a ten-step action plan for every lifetime, 5-year, 1-year and monthly goal.
You must have at least ten action steps!
The first steps you write down are the steps that aren’t currently doing but you know you should. Your strategic plan must involve new strategies that you have never thought of before. You must move from your comfort zone to grow! Without new strategies here will be no new energy!
Goals unachieved revisited have no power and the likelihood of achieving them are near zero!
Write your goals at the top of a page and write your ten action steps beneath them with deadlines for each action step. Review these every morning, noon and night. Know where you are in the process at every moment Resolve yourself to trust your decisions and take action.
Secret #10: Short cut to changing your belief systems:
Using visualization is the quickest way to tap into the subconscious mind. When your belief systems change your actions change when your actions change your reality changes.
The more vivid you visualize them more likely you will be able to change your belief systems. 5 sense your visualization; vividly play a movie in your minds eye where you can see yourself already achieved your goals.
Your subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between a good visualization and reality.
If you visualize your goals clearly and often enough you will grow quicker faster and easier than ever before.
Whatever you FOCUS on you attract! This is how you fulfill your own prophecy!
There is a seismic shift in performance when you move from decisiveness to focus. The shift is caused, enhanced and accelerated by the intensity in which you focus!
Secret #11: Adding power to your visualizations with affirmations:
This is a process every top athlete and performer has used to help them succeed.
Affirmations go hand in hand with visualizations. An affirmation is a statement of your goals in present time consciousness.
Write out 5 affirmations to match with each goal.
5 sense your affirmations.
Review your goals, affirmations and action steps every morning.
Record your goals and affirmations on tape. Listen to them in the car and at night.
Visualize when you read your affirmations.
Secret #12: Daily accomplishments:
Achieve one small step each and every day.
Baby steps. The secret is in consistency. No matter what, each and every day accomplish at least one small step. Never ever take a day off. This is your life; your joy and happiness are connected to living your life at 100%. Play at 100%.
Develop a habit of success where you take actions everyday based on your noble purpose! Live your purpose and develop success habits. Don’t miss a day for the first 21 days to create your new success habits this includes Saturdays and Sundays!
Develop Rituals: The half hour to success. Get up 30 minutes early everyday! We all get knocked off purpose in our lives this will bring our noble purpose back into focus. Be completely and totally immersed everyday in everything that you do and you begin to live in the "zone". A completely magic state of performance where everything you say, do or think is absolutely perfect.
Tools for implementation:
Enroll your staff in the same habits.
Secret #13: Enjoy the process, go for it and press the envelope:
Like taking a vacation.
Happiness is in the process, because you are always in process.
You can wait until the end to be happy or you may never experience happiness at all.
Journal the process everyday. Write down your wins, accomplishments and breakthroughs. Write down what you are thankful for everyday.
Are you on tract to achieve every single one of goals and if not what needs to happen for that to happen?
Get out of your comfort zone and grow!
Live life to it’s fullest.
It doesn’t matter how old you are, what your past history of problems and challenges may have been or what your current state is, you need to know that with this formula you can do, have and be anything! So dream big, play at 100% and enjoy an extraordinary life.